Married, but praising another man - Mufti Menk written txt
When marrying a widow.Remember one thing she may praise her deceased husband.There's nothing wrong in that.Don't become angry and upset if you are married widow were.He may speak very respectfully and fondly about his latewife. No need to be hurt or to become jealous of a personwho's passed on.The Prophet used to praise Hadija Ravi Allahu ANHA way after she passed away to who to his wives and therefore it is human nature. There was nothing wrong that happened there.Somebody was married, their spouse happened to pass away.They missed that person.They were a good person.They are talking about the goodness of that person.It's not wrong.You cannot make a condition with your spouse to say don't ever speak about the deceased spouse of yours.We're just human beings.It will happen by default if they were good.You may mention a little bit of their goodness, but yes,don't overdo it because not all the people are so accepting.Sometimes human nature makes a person a little bit upset too. But my brothers and sisters, sisters remember because we are human beings.We always should appreciate goodness and good people.So for someone to speak about it fondly is not bad.It's not wrong.May Allah protect us and guide us.
