don't just say leaving just leave him you get another guy but sister who is speaking went through a divorce and it's been twenty years and you're still looking for that other guy right she's in it's like give other good advice does and you know what why to make it work let's see how best is he an evil guy is he engaging in physical abuse if that's the case there's a limit of tolerance you need to know this there is a limit of tolerance i'm not saying here from the spout but today that just go out and forgive everyone in living every situation you know sometimes parents abused their daughters we've come across cases where some abuse their own children there is a limit there is a line we will have to do something to save those kids because we don't want to repeat itself even if it just happened once lost awesome kind of hotel or strengthen us i'm not saying in that case that is an extreme case it's like writing something off like i said i'm not saying that in that